refactor: unify extra argument parsing (#1540) #1

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ubuntu-latest-rocm (7.13.0, gfx906;gfx908;gfx90a;gfx942;gfx950;gfx1010;gfx1011;gfx1012;gfx1030;gf...	1h 56m 56s
ubuntu-latest-cmake	6m 9s
windows-latest-rocm	2h 53m 3s
ubuntu-latest-cmake-vulkan	9m 5s
macOS-latest-cmake	9m 5s
ubuntu-latest-rocm (7.2.1, gfx908;gfx90a;gfx942;gfx1030;gfx1031;gfx1032;gfx1100;gfx1101;gfx1102;g...	1h 15m 34s
windows-latest-cmake-hip	1h 5m 16s
Build and push container images (cuda, linux/arm64, ubuntu-24.04-arm, -spark, CUDA_VERSION=13.0.0...	1m 53s
Build and push container images (sycl, linux/amd64, ubuntu-latest)	1m 59s
Build and push container images (musa, linux/amd64, ubuntu-latest)	1m 49s
Build and push container images (cuda, linux/amd64, ubuntu-latest)	1m 53s
windows-latest-cmake (avx2, -DGGML_NATIVE=OFF -DGGML_AVX2=ON -DSD_BUILD_SHARED_LIBS=ON)	3m 33s
windows-latest-cmake (avx, -DGGML_NATIVE=OFF -DGGML_AVX=ON -DGGML_AVX2=OFF -DSD_BUILD_SHARED_LIBS...	4m 7s
windows-latest-cmake (vulkan, -DSD_VULKAN=ON -DSD_BUILD_SHARED_LIBS=ON)	6m 36s
windows-latest-cmake (noavx, -DGGML_NATIVE=OFF -DGGML_AVX=OFF -DGGML_AVX2=OFF -DGGML_FMA=OFF -DSD...	3m 32s
windows-latest-cmake (cuda12, -DSD_CUDA=ON -DSD_BUILD_SHARED_LIBS=ON -DCMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES='...	2h 21m 21s
windows-latest-cmake (avx512, -DGGML_NATIVE=OFF -DGGML_AVX512=ON -DGGML_AVX=ON -DGGML_AVX2=ON -DS...	3m 44s
Build and push container images (vulkan, linux/amd64, ubuntu-latest)	1m 37s
release	-1s
	10h 27m 11s

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