Add ExecutionPlan try_to_proto / try_from_proto hooks + ProjectionExec reference

[adriangb]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Part of [EPIC] Port ExecutionPlan serialization to try_to_proto / try_from_proto hooks #23494.

Rationale for this change

This is the foundation for porting ExecutionPlan serialization off the central downcast_ref chain in datafusion/proto/src/physical_plan/mod.rs, mirroring what #21929 did for PhysicalExpr (tracked in #22418). Everything else in #23494 depends on this PR; it can't be parallelized because it defines the ctx API and wiring that every per-plan follow-up uses.

What changes are included in this PR?

In datafusion-physical-plan (feature-gated #[cfg(feature = "proto")]):

• ExecutionPlan::try_to_proto(&self, ctx: &ExecutionPlanEncodeCtx) -> Result<Option<PhysicalPlanNode>> — a new trait method defaulting to Ok(None) (so un-migrated plans are unchanged).
• ExecutionPlanEncodeCtx / ExecutionPlanDecodeCtx plus the internal ExecutionPlanEncode / ExecutionPlanDecode dispatch traits (defined here, implemented in datafusion-proto) — the same dependency-inversion the PhysicalExpr ctx uses. The ctx exposes encode_child/decode_child (+ _children), encode_expr/decode_expr, and typed bytes-only encode_udaf/decode_udaf (+ udf/udwf) for function-carrying plans. No proto type is ever named by physical-plan beyond the pure prost types in datafusion-proto-models.
• An expect_plan_variant! macro mirroring expect_expr_variant!.

In datafusion-proto:

• ConverterPlanEncoder / ConverterPlanDecoder implement the dispatch traits over the existing PhysicalExtensionCodec + converter (the function serde reuses today's fun_definition byte semantics exactly). The encode dispatch calls the hook first (resolving downcast_delegate() beforehand so wrapper plans serialize as their delegate), then falls back to the existing downcast chain.

ProjectionExec is migrated as the reference implementation: its old encode arm is deleted and its decode arm reduced to ProjectionExec::try_from_proto, so a green roundtrip proves the hook is the only path.

Are these changes tested?

Yes — the existing proto_integration roundtrip suite (including TPC-H) passes unchanged (189 tests), which exercises the ProjectionExec migration end-to-end. cargo clippy --all-targets -- -D warnings and cargo fmt are clean.

Are there any user-facing changes?

Additive only in this PR (new trait method with a default, new pub ctx types). No wire-format change. The broader effort (#23494) will remove the pub-for-proto PhysicalPlanNodeExt scaffolding as plans migrate — that is a documented api change, but this base PR does not remove any public API.

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Reviewer note: cargo-semver-checks reported the current version number is not SemVer-compatible with the changes in this pull request (compared against the base branch).

Details

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     Summary no semver update required
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--- failure trait_method_missing: pub trait method removed or renamed ---

Description:
A trait method is no longer callable, and may have been renamed or removed entirely.
        ref: https://doc.rust-lang.org/cargo/reference/semver.html#trait-item-signature
       impl: https://github.com/obi1kenobi/cargo-semver-checks/tree/v0.48.0/src/lints/trait_method_missing.ron

Failed in:
  method try_into_projection_physical_plan of trait PhysicalPlanNodeExt, previously in file /home/runner/work/datafusion/datafusion/target/semver-checks/git-apache_main/37ab8be13065e117d97bf800e9e00efed983803e/datafusion/proto/src/physical_plan/mod.rs:734
  method try_from_projection_exec of trait PhysicalPlanNodeExt, previously in file /home/runner/work/datafusion/datafusion/target/semver-checks/git-apache_main/37ab8be13065e117d97bf800e9e00efed983803e/datafusion/proto/src/physical_plan/mod.rs:2433

     Summary semver requires new major version: 1 major and 0 minor checks failed
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