feat(sql): add span instrumentation

[giortzisg]

Description

This PR adds query module instrumentation for sql.

Issues

• resolves: feat(sql): emit db.sql.query and db.sql.exec spans #1278
• resolves: GO-138

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GO-138 feat(sql): emit db.sql.query and db.sql.exec spans