Gate ARM DNN RTCD source on DNN builds

[cookesan]

Summary:

• Only add the ARM DNN runtime-dispatch source when DNN sources are enabled.
• Match the x86 CMake path and Autotools gating so non-DNN ARM builds do not compile arm_dnn_map.c.

Testing:

• git diff --check
• cmake -S . -B build-local -DOPUS_BUILD_TESTING=ON -DOPUS_BUILD_PROGRAMS=ON
• cmake --build build-local --parallel
• ctest --test-dir build-local --output-on-failure

Fixes #443.

[cookesan]

Following up on this small build fix. The change is still limited to matching the ARM CMake source list with the existing DNN gating so non-DNN ARM builds do not compile arm_dnn_map.c.

Is there anything else I should adjust before review?